No one else cares for your success, so you have to care. You have to force yourself to get up early, you have to force yourself to turn your phone off and revise, you have to force yourself to workout, you have to care for the whole world because no one else cares until they start seeing results. And they won’t ever see your results if you don’t care enough first. It’s your life, they are your goals, your dreams, it will be your success but it has to be your effort and your work first and foremost x
lowkey I feel like a lot of people my age & younger think selfcare is like “treat yourself to new outfit” or “put on a facemask” or “have an extra scoop of ice cream” but i cannot stress enough that sometimes selfcare is “brushing your teeth” and “cleaning your room” and “eating some fruit” or “going for a walk”
It’s not just about the frivolous ‘treat-yourself’ stuff. most of the time it’s about actually taking care of your body’s basic needs
Can’t stress this enough. Eat a wholesome meal, exfoliate. If you work on a computer all day get up and go outside on your break. If you’ve been feeling sad and your room is a mess and you have dirty laundry, clean it up get, rid of things that don’t serve you anymore. Your treat can be paying someone to do your laundry and then putting on a cute outfit. Don’t just make excuses to spend money, I’ve been there and in the long run you’ll just be broke and still feel sh*tty.
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Dating :
1- The Rules -Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider                        Â
 You are a creature unlike any other (Rule #1)–that’s why you need … The Rules. A simple set of dos and don'ts, The Rules will lead you to where you want to be: in a healthy, committed relationship.
IN 1995 THE RULES WAS QUIETLY PUBLISHED…AND DATING HAS NEVER BEEN THE SAME SINCE! Women passed it from hand to hand until THE RULES changed women’s lives all over the world. Its secret? THE RULES work!
3-Â The New RulesÂ
- Â Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider
The dating dos and don'ts for the digital generation
4- Not Your Mother’s RulesÂ
- Â Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider
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